Swatch Party...Saturday?! | Gourmande Girls If Stef Wears It Highlighter Palette

Hey, it’s (the day after) payday, and you’re looking to treat yourself after a long week of not flipping every document on your work desk and throwing the computer out of the window. Of course, that treat is going to be makeup (what else would it be), but what do you choose?

Swatch Party Fridays are here to save the day! After watching ThatGirlShaeXO perform dozens (if not hundreds) of live swatches on her face it inspired me to do the same all in the name of helping you find that next holy grail item.

Every week I’ll swatch a product on my arm and respective application site (minus glitters because, at the end of the day, I love myself too much to do that to my face). I hope this growing swatch catalog of my own personal collection will help you decide if it’s meant to have a home in your check out basket.

After all, what better way to celebrate the weekend than with makeup? I’ll wait…

Gourmande Girls

Ok Ok Ok I’m late…and a little wishy washy…but I’m finally pulling myself out of the pumpkin pie haze to get back to the good stuff. And apparently my motto for 2019 is “better late than never” because…here we are.

Gourmande Girls is owned by boss babe besties Christina and Stef whom I luckily stumbled upon through Instagram. Their passion for European inspired cosmetics and their larger than life take on style is front and center. Their products range from imported fragrance to bold hits of color.

The If Stef Wears It Palette ($30 USD), to me, is as if an Hourglass Ambient Light Palette and an Anastasia Beverly Hills Glow kit had a baby. They give a creamy glow to the skin while also giving a hint of other-worldly alien-babe color.

DISCLAIMER

I am 1) 100% biased in my opinion on this brand - not because I am paid to be (which I am not) but because I resonate with the brand philosophy and their attitude towards cosmetics, women’s empowerment, and our animal friends.

I am 2) fully aware some of the bottom row of highlighters are too dark for my skin tone. I tried to build up my bronzer a bit for the final shade (since I would realistically use it as more of a bronzer or blush topper) but I would LOVE to see a medium skin tone rock the green shade. Any girl with olive tan undertones who wants to check this palette out PLEASE send me a selfie because that shade with a light hand is going to look SICKENING on you and I need to see you SLAY.

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Holiday Gratitude Challenge & Giveaway Day 3: The Pain That Brought You Here

Hello Friends,

Today’s topic GOES THERE.

TRIGGER WARNING: ABUSE

This is me being super vulnerable and talking about topics that are painful for me and my family, However, I hope that this is an inspiration for all that you are able to do with your own lives and look at a terrible situation differently.

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Today’s Prompt:

Think of a difficult or terrible thing that has happened to you in your life and thank it for the lessons it taught you or the strength it gave you.

PRODUCTS MENTIONED

ELF Eyebrow Pencil

Benefit 24-hr Brow Setter

Colourpop No Filter Concealer & Kathleen Lights Zodiac Palette

Urban Decay All Nighter Foundation

Wet N Wild Doulce Contour and Highlight Palette

Too Faced Better Than Sex Mascara

NYX Cosmetics Epic Ink Liquid Liner

BH Cosmetics Lipliner Playful

Live Glam Kiss Me Club Liquid Lipstick

Tarte Tartist Gel Liner & Jewel Eyeliner in White Gold

L'Oreal Loose Highlighter Light

MUSIC

Music by Skylar Stecker - Let It Pour - https://thmatc.co/?l=6E7ED1

http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Jay_Kirk/

GIVEAWAY RULES FOR ENTRY

I’m gonna need you to head over to the BackPorchPoet Instagram, friend. There you’ll find all the prompts and rules for entry. If you partake in the challenge you’ll be automatically entered to win $112 worth of The Established goodies ranging from lux lotions and good for you serums. Can’t wait to see you there!

GIVEAWAY SPONSOR

https://theestablished.co

https://www.instagram.com/theestablished/

Holiday Gratitude Challenge & Giveaway Day 2: Taking Stock

Hello Friends! Day 2 is already here?! Craziness!

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Today’s prompt

Taking stock:

List 5 people or things (big or small) that you’re grateful for.

There are several reasons I think it’s a good idea to do this on a semi-regular basis. The first is a whole Law of Attraction thing that you can research if you feel like it’s something you want to learn about (my faves are Jen Sincero and Manifestation Babe).

The second is to remind yourself of your own power and your propensity for good things in this world. Was there anything you’ve accomplished after working really hard for it? Are there parts of your day, week, year, that make you smile uncontrollably? Do you just love your dog?! (I really love my dog, ok?!)

Sometimes it’s easy to get caught up in the things you haven’t received yet or accomplished yet and this isn’t to say goals are bad things (goals are really really good things!). This is to say that just because you haven’t finished the journey yet, it doesn’t mean that you haven’t travelled miles already.

5 (More) Things I’m Grateful For

In Addition To The Instagram and Youtube Additions

1) Heated Blankets - If you live in a semi-cold location and you don’t have a heated blanket lemme tell ya you’re missing out. Hands down one of my best life choices (the absolute cozy-est!).

2) Podcasts - I have been turned on to several amazing podcasts thanks to my Insta-Girls. It’s one of the easiest and most effective ways I keep on top of my mindset. Whenever I’m in the car or doing chores, I love popping on a podcast and doing my inner and outer work.

Some fave Podcasts:

The Manifestation Babe Podcast

No Man’s Land by The Wing

Oprah’s Super Soul Conversations

Earn Your Happy by Lori Harder

3) Bagels - Yes, I am aware that bagels are like 12 loaves of bread, a billion calories, and probably the ones who slashed my tires. But I love them. A great bagel is enough to make me sing with joy and dang it if a bagel is what ends up killing me then so be it! Death by bagel sounds like a great death to me.

4) Audible - Hey, isn’t Audible like a really long podcast? Yes, probably. But I still enjoy the service (and most amazon services) immensely. The way I listen to podcasts is generally the way I listen to my audible books and it has really been a massive help in my personal development over the last several years.

Fave Audible Books:

Anything by Jen Sincero (just do it, ok?!)

The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

29 Gifts: How a Month of Giving Can Change Your Life by Cami Walker

5) My Day Job - My day job is not perfect. My day job isn’t all that I hope to accomplish in life. My day job is good. My day job provides me with the means to support myself. My day job is helping me create the time for what I want to be my day job (ie: this). I get to talk to wonderful people and spend time with wonderful people and help people during my day job. My day job is not what I want to do the rest of my life but it is good and I am thankful.

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Today’s Video

Giveaway Rules for Entry

I’m gonna need you to head over to the BackPorchPoet Instagram, friend. There you’ll find all the prompts and rules for entry. If you partake in the challenge you’ll be automatically entered to win $112 worth of The Established goodies ranging from lux lotions and good for you serums. Can’t wait to see you there!

GIVEAWAY SPONSOR

https://theestablished.co

https://www.instagram.com/theestablished/

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PRODUCTS MENTIONED

ELF Eyebrow Pencil

Benefit 24-hr Brow Setter

Colourpop No Filter Concealer

Urban Decay All Nighter Foundation

Wet N Wild Doulce Contour and Highlight Palette & Lash Extension Mascara

Dose of Colors Desi x Katy Fuego Highlighter

Coloured Raine Rust & Berry Cute Palettes

NYX Cosmetics Epic Ink Liquid Liner

Too Faced Peach Perfect Papa Don't Peach Gloss

Pixi Eyeliner Pencil


Holiday Gratitude Challenge & Giveaway Day 1: Life Happens In The Moment

Hello Friends!

I’m so excited for you to be here and to partake in this free gratitude challenge!

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Today’s Prompt:

Where are you? What are you doing? And why is it ultimately good?

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I am pulling my second late night to produce content for this challenge. My day today wasn’t great and it wasn’t terrible. I was feeling cranky, low vibe, and aggravated. I caught myself thinking mean thoughts about others over silly things that I know deep down don’t matter. I wasn’t feeling very grateful during my gratitude challenge.

But then I recorded the audio for my video today and somehow I reminded myself about what it means to be grateful each moment - to live life moment to moment. Basically, I used my own challenge to teach me my own point. The irony isn’t lost on me.

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“Now, Cara, why another mug?!”

Well, for one, I like drawing random things on my face. And for two it’s my favorite way to practice mindfulness. There are few things that bring me the same amount of joy as my morning coffee or my bedtime tea. When it’s too hot I’m forced to be patient. When it’s the perfect temperature I have to force myself to pay attention to it in order to enjoy every drop before I eventually forget about it and it’s too cold to drink. There is only one moment in time it’s the perfect drinking temperature and I intend to be present for every second of it.


Giveaway Rules and Details

If you want to get on top of winning $112 worth of The Established bath, body, and skin care products you better head on over to the BackPorchPoet Instagram and start partaking in the challenge prompts. We can’t wait to see you there!

Nomad Cosmetics Giveaway & Halloween Bonus! The Morbach Monster

This look was inspired by the Morbach Monster, also known as a werewolf. But it’s hard to be a ferocious German creature of the night when your general demeanor is more labradoodle 🐶

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Do you need the perfect grungy tones for your next concert? Want to be glammed out while howling at the moon? You’re in luck! I’ve teamed up with @nomadcosmetics to give you all a spooky surprise! In the spirit of Halloween we’re treating a lucky winner to their Berlin Underground Palette (which was used as both inspiration and medium for the posted look).

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TERMS: 
1) Must be following both @nomadcosmetics and @backporchpoet on Instagram
2) Must be a resident of the United States 
3) Like the giveaway Instagram post and leave a comment tagging a friend you want to travel the world with (taking this palette of course!)

That’s it! 


We ask that entrants don’t unfollow within a month of contest completion to be considered for future giveaways on BackPorchPoet. 
Winner will be announced November 2, 2018 at 12pm EST.
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Tis the season to be spooky! Good luck goblins and ghouls!